Making a Difference

How could you make a difference in the world? How can you make a difference in one person's life? How have you done that? 

I could make a difference in the world by doing something that positively affects those around me. Many ordinary people think that they don't have what it takes to make a difference in the world today. They think that only Mother Teresa, Albert Einstein, Thomas Edison, Bill Gates, and others on the same level are the only ones capable of making a difference. But that is 100% untrue...it all starts with you (the individual)! You just need to do something with the intent to ‘do good’ and you've got it. 

          I can make a difference in one person's life by simply making them smile or just have a better day. Additionally, befriending that person makes a huge difference also...friends are so indispensable in this life we have; so, be there for and care for those around you. 

I have made a difference by being a positive person and choosing positivity even when I don’t feel like it. I know I’ve made some people's days brighter. For example, at school I’ve made people smile back at me when I smile.  I know their day was made brighter because people have said that I make their day because I smile (it’s especially good that I smile because just two years ago I didn’t! I’m glad I’m a totally changed person! :D). Anyway, I’ve made people’s days better. Therefore, I’ve made a difference in the world! 

How would your life be different if you had been born in Niger?

If I had been born in Niger, I imagine my life would be pretty tough (my life presently is pretty nice…so huge change there). First of all, Niger has the lowest Human Development Index (HDI) on earth, so I would most likely be impoverished. The HDI is a comparative measure of life expectancy, literacy, education, and standards of living worldwide.  It's a standard means of measuring well-being, especially child welfare. It's used to distinguish whether the country is a developed, developing, or an underdeveloped country. The HDI also measures the quality of life. When Niger has the LOWEST HDI on earth, well things can't be too good; thus, my life would probably be not too good either. I would most likely not have an education. This would in turn mean I wouldn't be able to read and write! That's depressing...those are two things I really enjoy.  Secondly, I would be very poor...so I might not even be wearing shoes! Crazy. I can’t imagine not owning one pair of shoes; this is just totally recondite to me.  In addition to everything else, the religion of Islam dominates 97% of Niger's population....so I would probably be a Muslim! Wow, what a difference from what I believe (I'm a radical follower of Christ NOT Muhammad)! And if Niger is predominantly Islamic, then I would probably be treated like crap because I'm a girl! I am thanking God right now that I was born in Nebraska to my parents; what a wonderful life I have, especially if I compare it to anyone in Niger or if I compare it to anyone in all of Africa for that matter (maybe minus South Africa...)! And on top of everything else, there is a good chance I might have had a kid by now…whoa. And most likely out of marriage (and it’s likely it was out of rape, which is sad). Oh, and the common diet consists of milk, millet, and dates. No meat! That’s just crazy again; meat is a staple in my diet. So pretty much, if I had been born in Niger, I would be a totally different person. TOTALLY. 

Goals

In careers class, we have been talking about SMART goals and how important it is to set goals. The acronym SMART stands for specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, time-based goals. My first reaction to making goals was negative. I'm a self-starter and I didn't see the point of listing goals. I get things that need to be done done just because it drives me crazy if they don't get done! For instance, I'm the one that cleans my house. If I didn't, it would be a mess (no one at home seems to mind except me), and I would be going crazy (if you don't believe me, just ask my mom or sister how crazy I can be when it comes to cleaning—I'm pretty much a cleaning Nazi)! I cannot even begin to convey the frustration that comes to me when something is not done...I have literally screamed at my mom for trying to finish the dishes because she does them wrong (and that was maybe a week ago...). Anyway, back to goal setting. We talked about how goals provide a way to focus and concentrate time and energy into specific targets chosen in your life; this is designed to make significant positive impacts in your life. Also, research shows that many people who take just five to ten minutes each month to set goals are more likely to succeed and achieve greater than those who don’t set goals at all. A lot of the time goals are used for motivation…which I don’t get at all; I think it works in the opposite way for me. When I set goals, I just feel like I don’t want to reach the goals anymore; but, when I don’t set goals I feel free to go above and beyond everyone else. I like the feeling of freedom. It’s just like in school; if I feel pressured to get all A’s, then I probably will end up with a B or two. But, if I feel like I can fail a class and I feel like it doesn’t matter, that in itself drives me to really learn…as weird and as opposite as that sounds. I have realized how beneficial goal setting can be though careers class...but for the most part, I think I'll stick to my innate tendencies to just get things done. 

Grades: How important should they be?

It seems like all that matters in school these days is getting a good grade; I think it's extremely ridiculous. When you have to cheat to achieve that highly desired A that mom and dad are pushing you to get, what's the point? Life is not just about memorizing and getting answers...life is about accumulating knowledge and applying it. What good is there in knowing all the answers in the world if you don’t understand the answers themselves or even understand why you’re getting the answer you’re getting? I think it’s worthless to just get answers. Understanding is key! Furthermore, the value placed in getting straight A’s by parents today is outrageous. They seem to have difficulty accepting less than A's on their children's report cards (when looking back they probably got B’s or C’s…which is pretty ironic). What are we teaching kids today?! Are we teaching that appearance is the thing that really matters most in life?! I don’t know, but I would surely hope not! We need to be building character in the kids of today so that we will have a good future; you know why? Kids are the future! If you just tell them what to do and pressure them so much that they have to cheat, well, that’s not building character! Besides, many of today’s recognized geniuses were awful at school and received poor grades. My point: grades aren’t everything (there's nothing wrong with getting good grades, though); chase the knowledge and the grade will take care of itself. Also, be passionate about learning and pass that passion on to others…especially your kids!